FIND A MAN
HOW TO PICK A PROPER MAN
USING YOUR MAMMAL INSTINCTS IS THE MOST
The heading of How to Pick a Man goes to the heart of what is The Mammalian Way™. AND, IT NEVER FAILS BECAUSE….
The specific group of instincts that are part of The Mammalian Way™ continually influence human social behavior as far back as the beginning of civilization. They've clandestinely become a part of what is commonly referred to as the socialization process and, at this point in time, their influence still emerges as a "trial and error method" of "acting and reacting" according to the instincts' built in priority system. And we still don't have a clue that we could improve the quality of our lives, but only if we know about the existence of The Mammalian Way™ influence and then how to use it correctly.
With time our mammalian instincts were also temporarily influenced by our cognitive capacity (the power of reason) which is a classic nature combined with nurture scenario. However, in the instances where our reasoning (the cognitive) interferes with what The Mammalian Way™ instincts signal us to do, this produces far more failures in relationships than successes. (Just look around at the people in your own life to see what I mean)
Meanwhile, so long as The Mammalian Way™ influence remains hidden from you as secrets within the socialization process, it is only reasonable to use a "trial and error" process when you have nothing else to fetter out a way of acceptable behavior. And by using only the socially acceptable behaviors and then passing them on to your off-spring, this acceptable behavior for living in our society becomes the norm.
What came out of this hap-hazard process was the infamous “Birds and the Bees” talk for example. Or, in lieu of "trial and error", often came the multitude of pseudo religious materials all seemingly bent on strict control of instinctive behavior….. or else go straight to hell.
However you and your family may view such exercises, these have none the less been amongst the accepted practices to socialize humanity for a very long time because no one would/could invest the time and resources necessary to drill deeper into what was (or what else was) truly at work in the socialization process (especially when it came to interacting with the opposite sex).
As odd as it may seem, until my study came to be, there have been no valid conclusions put forth regarding the inherent limitations that our cognitive abilities have over our instinctive behavior, and what might be offered as a viable explanation and what to do instead.
Similar to the concept of “manifest destiny”, we humans have arrogantly figured that since we have “reason” and can “think” (the chief elements that make our species capable of ascending to the top of the mammalian food chain) that we can certainly over power behavior motivated from mere “mammal instincts” which are prevalent in all mammals. Our assumption has been since we are human we automatically get a pass or can ignore anything that might involuntarily subject us to the influence of our own mammalian instincts.
What a colossal blunder that assumption has been for human-kind. That we can ignore or discount the power of our mammalian instincts without the risk of incurring serious consequences to our overall well being is absurd.
The fact is much of our own observable behavior exudes the influence of our mammal instincts and the more you familiarize yourself with The Mammalian Way™ the more you will see how simple it is to use this force of nature to benefit you (and your family) instead of having it pulverize many parts of your life as it does now.
So what does this have to do with picking a man? EVERYTHING…. if you want it to work out. When you interact with the opposite gender in any way, your mammalian instincts quickly reach a peak in their influence over social behavior. Because given the imperfectly safe world we all live in every time you so much as think about the opposite sex your mammalian instincts perceive that you're very survival is at stake and, to protect the survival of your species, your mammalian instincts become unstoppable.
It is a sad irony that the sociological and psychological mess we are in right now as a culture, and the pain, agony, and misgivings we have about the opposite gender, is the evidence that shows just how clueless our “thinking” is when pitted against our natural mammal “instincts”.
So, my suggestion for you is keep an open mind while you take in accurate knowledge of The Mammalian Way™. I am positive as you become familiar with the facts you will see for yourself the canyon there is between the current accepted wisdom about our social behavior and the actual more complete reality that exists. The more you know about it, the more you will know exactly what to do in order to find the Mr. Right(s) for your life. And that simple, natural process will become sheer joy.
And Ladies, to make a mammalian connection that is so vital to a successful relationship with the opposite sex is only part of the simple “secret”. You get the complete picture and all the secrets by becoming a follower of The Mammalian Way™. The one thing I can promise you is, you will not be sorry! It all begins with reading the book, The Mammalian Way™.
Post copyright (c) Gary james 2011