MEN & SEX: Why They Don’t Get It…..The Story of Platinum (2 of 3 parts)
October 18th, 2008 | by admin |As a social theorist I have encountered a great many people who have misunderstandings and communication difficulties with the opposite sex, especially since we now live in the era of EMPOWERED WOMEN. Given the confusion men have about women and women have about men, is it any wonder why personal relationships problems abound, especially where sex can be involved?
…while those guys were having sex with their sock I was privileged to have been drenched in Platinum’s passion, poured out all over me like honey”!…
A few days after my wonderful encounter with Platinum I was once again in the bar and sitting with the same friend (I will call him Joe) who sat on my left side the night I hooked up with Platinum. As our typical conversation progressed, Joe, who knew I was writing a book about communicating with the opposite sex, was curious about “how it went with Platinum”?
When he asked that question, I said, “Joe, the only thing I can say is, it went well”. Then he asked, “She seemed older, was she”? I smiled and said, “Yea, I guess she was at that”. I could tell by his hesitation and his body language that Joe wanted to say or ask something else of a sensitive nature but before he did I continued,
“I’ll bet you’re curious about why I would go out with a woman older than myself when you already seen me out with a woman 20 years younger than me. Right”? Joe said, “exactly”. Then I said, “I have a knack for picking up on the vibs of women who are seriously pent up with untapped passion that needs to be tapped”. “And that need is pretty much an ageless need, especially in women Joe.”
Then I asked Joe, “Couldn’t you see the poise and sensuality that just oozed out of her”? Joe said, “Yea, I suppose I could”. Then I said, “But I’ll bet you were at least a little concerned about what all your other buddies would think of you if you went out with a woman older than you, much more, a woman with a few wrinkles, right?”
Joe said, “yea….you’re right”. I said, “And if I was not here Platinum would likely have been ignored by the men. Or maybe they would have made hurtful remarks about how her efforts to hold onto her youth is something foolish.” Joe nodded in agreement. I continued,
“Do you understand that this type of behavior in men is phobic and dishonorable”? Joe was now looking at me with a face of astonishment as I continued my rant. “All it serves to do is keep a man from reaching any where near his full potential as a heterosexual lover, this also means men simply don’t get laid well, nearly as often as they could. Yet, ironically, sex with women is pretty much all they’re after.”
Then with a full arm out stretched I pointed and waved my finger around the bar and continued, “The other night while those guys were having sex with their sock I was privileged to have been drenched in Platinum’s passion, poured out all over me like honey”! “And it was good Joe…Very very Good!”
Then Joe laughed and said to me, “Man, I can see why you’re writing a book, and now that I think about it,….you’re right.” Then Joe shifted gears. He said, “Gary, now that I really think about it there’s a woman in my building that keeps trying to get my attention but she’s older so I was not paying attention.” I said, “next time you see her, strike up a conversation, then invite her over for coffee”. “Then let nature take it’s course”.
A few days later Joe walked over to me at the bar and said, ”Hey Gary, just want ya ta know I took care of that little thing we were talking about”. As he said that he formed his right hand into a fist and moved his forearm like a piston.
So what do you think? Did I get through to Joe about personal relationships problems? Or did I just get him laid one night? BUT, that’s not the end of the story. The next part is the best part. Look for The Story of Platinum…(Part 3 of 3) Meanwhile,
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