Sunday, March 28th, 2010

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Here is another segment of "Personal Relationship Therapy". A brief synopsis of the story of “Valentines Day Joe” who followed "The Mammalian Way", was able to read her behavior, temporarily shed his phobias, impress his love interest as only an independent man is able to do, in order to have his woman feel truly special,… and then be handsomely rewarded with the best sex of his life,….. and then receive a bonus to boot!

Listen to the 15 minute excerpt from the audio curriculum "The Mammalian Way"(TMW).


Men & Women learn that TMW can be seen as a "silent language for people who engage in relationships and the closest thing to communication via telepathy that humans possess in abundance"…..AND NOT ONLY FOR SEX, LOVE, AND ROMANCE…TMW can be applied to business or even a poker game….Tune in….listen & learn. The book can be acquired at The audios can be acquired by direct contact, "The Mammalian Way" will change your life for the better…More pleasure…Less Pain…I promise..


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Monday, March 16th, 2009

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There is a way for Mortgage Brokers and Loan Officers to legally help their clients save their homes, businesses, and credit worthiness.

We now live in an era of time that can be arguably called, “Hard Times Nouveau”. As with most situations that occur in the stream of life where the society of the times collectively agrees that “Times Have Changed” we have some new notions about how to look at business and personal finance that are developing and may forever alter the way Capitalist’s use credit and generally do business.

Currently, one major part of this process is to find ways to help the millions of people who find themselves financially “upside down” (meaning they owe much more money for something(s) than those things are worth) to get back into “the mix” so to speak.

Within the Real Estate industry the term Loan Modification is used most often to refer to the need someone has to lower their monthly mortgage payment and so they look to the lender for help in re-writing the terms of their mortgage contract. The chief motivation for this is because they find that the house they call home to be worth less money than they paid for it and thus the house is “upside down”.

Given the current economic climate, Loan Modification tends to be a more suitable solution to restore financial stability than choices such as bankruptcy or a refinance because loan modification is typically the least costly way to adjust the payment as well as other aspects of the terms including interest rate and length of the contract.


One big question that arises with this process is, who does a homeowner use to handle negotiation of the new terms of the contract with the lender? The short answer here is the homeowner needs to negotiate the new terms their self or they need to use an attorney.

This is truly the main legal ways to handle the negotiation of a loan modification. However, quite often someone who is looking for a mortgage loan (modified or not) will seek the help of a mortgage broker or loan officer.

Meanwhile, there is some genuine happy news for those mortgage brokers and loan officers who wish to help their clients complete a Loan Modification and keep it legal. You can join our group, help your clients achieve a loan modification, save your client money, have them speak directly with an attorney, and earn a commission for yourself. For more information click the link.

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Be Well….Expect Success……Gary James

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Friday, March 13th, 2009

One of the side benefits of being a Social Theorist is I am able to see “Market Trends in People” usually much faster than can most professional marketers. This insight has helped me to make a living since my childhood.

I currently share my insight about any number of topics that seem to matter to people via an internet radio show located at, I have discovered that LOAN MODIFICATION is one topic that people are very interested in learning more about.

Meanwhile, who can argue that our economy is in an extraordinarily bad state of affairs and everything that can be done to help people to get “back on track” needs to be done.

To that end, I have found a venue I would like to share that can help people to inexpensively save their financial selves, and for those who are broke or smitten with the entrepreneurial spirit, and willing to work, the same venue I found can indeed put plenty of honest dollars in their pocket.

For $36.00 down a person can speak directly with a reputable attorney about using the Loan Modification process as a means to help rectify their finances and for $400 to $600 more they can complete the process. Click this link to learn more. 

Or, you can email me with questions that I will see get answered at,

Be Well……Dream Big……Expect Success……Gary James



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Sunday, January 18th, 2009

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….The mother and bride laughed and cried tears of joy when they saw the photos I took. They kept saying, “When did you take this photo”?….

If and when a personal relationship finds it’s way to a marriage proposal more often than not it leads to an unrepeatable, unrehearsed special event called a wedding.

As a producer, by the time I became actively involved in wedding photography I already had some experience in the wedding industry as a freelance DJ. So I basically knew how a good portion of the wedding day was supposed to “go”.

I owned some medium format and 35 m/m camera gear that my girlfriend at the time borrowed in order to learn how to photograph weddings. I found someone to teach her and I went along with her to the classes. That’s essentially how I got involved with weddings as a photographer.

And when my girlfriend moved on in life I was left with great photography gear and some further specialized production knowledge very relevant to the wedding industry.

Meanwhile, one day soon after I received a phone call from a mother of a bride who knew me personally and who’s wedding photographer had cancelled on her daughter’s wedding. The wedding was only 6 weeks away and my time was available for that day.

I met with the bride and her mother and leveled with them, that even though I had some experience in the industry if they hired me to “shoot” their wedding it would be the first time I shot an entire wedding on my own.

The bride and her mom appreciated my candor and decided to take a chance on me and so they hired me.

My approach was this: I combined the bride’s input about her taste and the specific images she needed shot with my own sense of production value then shot the wedding as I saw it. I took standard issue and portrait photos (How to do that is what I learned at wedding photo school) as well as documenting the day as it actually occurred, sometimes called photojournalism.

Here was the outcome of the days efforts: The mother and bride laughed and cried tears of joy when they saw the photos I took. They kept saying, “When did you take this photo”? In short, my clients were extremely happy. What else happened?

- The church lady at the Catholic church said, “You are by far the fastest photographer I ever saw the way you coordinated all the group shots at the alter in 15 minutes”. I remember this because she also asked for a “handful of my business cards”.

Her comment about coordinating the group photos stuck with me and I found out as time went on that most wedding photographers sorely lack basic everyday production skills, skills that I find are reasonably easy to learn.

- At the reception held at a very exclusive private Men’s club, the banquet director also took a few cards and remarked, “I have a list of photographers that I don’t refer much longer than the list I do. I like how you try not to be noticed by the guests”. (When he found out it was my first wedding he nearly did a spit take in his ginger ale.)

- Two couples who were guests at the wedding and engaged to be married also asked for my card.

Thus, a new specialikzed aspect of my production abilities was born. What the people such as the church lady and the banquet director were responding to when they took my card even though they had not yet seen a single photo I took is, the way they saw me approach my responsibility toward the bride’s wedding day that went far beyond merely taking a photo…..

The key to success was in the details I gleaned from the bride about her day along with understanding basic “Production Value” of an unrehearsed, unrepeatable special event. I simply used these elements as my basis to cover the wedding day.

All of this is to say that a wedding photographer needs to possess not only the artistic and technical capacity to create images, but an ability to see how the people of the day act and react to the event as it unfolds. I captured the essence of that first wedding day and every wedding I shot there after.

If you have questions about the wedding industry or elements of your special day feel free to contact me I am the only one who sees that mail.

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