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ADELE’S RELATIONSHIP WITH NEW MAN: SIMON

June 10th, 2012 | by Gary James |

IS HE REALLY A MINI ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER?

In an imperfectly safe world that most humans are raised in these days men find themselves prone to Perversions of Honor™ (POH). It is a coping mechanism that manifests in a plethora of ways out of a man’s deep instinctive emotional need for honor…. One of the ways POH manifests is through another mechanism that instead of being instinctive is a manufactured substitute for honor that emanates out of a man’s brain called men’s Fragile Male Ego(tism) or FME for short.

As for a woman who is involved in a personal relationship with a man, she is well advised to avoid his FME behavior (with the exception of sex) as much as she can as well as embrace his behavior derived from his genuine sense of honor… However in such activities as business his FME can be quite useful. So in one respect a man’s FME is a double edged sword. [This is also why a woman needs to know all she can about how The Mammalian Way™ (TMW) functions…because it helps answer all the relationship issues & questions you ladies ask yourself, because you will understand what his behavior means and what to do about it.]

Meanwhile, given the fact that people like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Simon Konecki are involved in business activities that require an armor clad ego as a pre requisite in order to survive in the businesses they are in, it is easy for Simon, Adele’s new guy to be seen as a mini Arnold…

However, since most men do not have a clue that their egotism and their honor are actually two very different motivators and not the same thing they almost always unconsciously take their FME motivated behavior into their personal relationships. And that is my take on Simon.

Mark my words, his interest in Adele is mostly business because he is a power monger just like Arnold and he will likely treat Adele in a very similar manner to how Arnold treats his wife, Maria Shriver. I might be wrong but I doubt it.

Ladies, look into the eyes of the men in each photo. Look deeeeep in… and you’ll see the power monger trait in BOTH Arnold & Simon. It boils down to the ability to lie to their selves intently enough that they are quite able to believe their own bullshit….

 

 

Now in businesses such as show business or the music business FME is a necessary trait for a man to have in order to deal with the slime ridden people that those businesses attract.…. But, when carried into a personal relationship FME is almost always death to a long term relationship.  [The difference between FME & genuine Honor, and what to do about it is the topic of my soon to be released MP3 audio titled Honor vs Ego(tism)]

Anyway, I’m certain that Adele & Simon will not last long and the break up will be another painful experience for her even if she feels a sense of relief when their romantic relationship finally ends…. And that’s sad because it does not need to happen…

Best,

Gary James