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FIND THE ONE despite Perversions of Honor™ in Men: There is a guide

Wednesday, September 12th, 2012

I recently came across a web/bog site called The Zeros Before The One. It’s owned and hosted by two women, Megan Gray and Claudia Maittlen-Harris…. Amongst all of the other things I liked about their site I especially enjoyed the information they share with women in what they call…. The Zeros Field Guide (TZFG). I say this because TZFG is an excellent third party validation for one part of my theory called The Mammalian Way™ (TMW) namely, Perversions Of Honor™ in Men (POH)..

Megan and Claudia define a male Zero as “any guy who wastes your [women’s] time in matters of the heart”. But it’s the various ways a Zero can waste your time that’s interesting and it relates directly to POH in men.

With the exception of the Zero they refer to as the ambiguously gay guy, all heterosexual men can be seen by one or more women as having all of the “zeroishness” traits characterized in TZFG at one point or another in their life. This is because every single one of those “zeroishness” aspects of men’s behavior patterns actually emanate from the exact same root source. It’s a psychological defense mechanism that emerges from one of his two major social instincts… the honor instinct.

Men have a plethora ways for this defense mechanism to emerge as perverted forms of their honor in order to satiate their very deep thirst for honor that I call Perversions of Honor™ (POH) in men. [For more information about POH in men and what can be done to contend with his honor drive read the book The Mammalian Way™ (TMW) and listen to the segment of the audio series titled, Honor vs Egotism in Men.]

In effect, POH provides a man’s honor drive with faux or fake honor (typically manufactured by his brain’s Cognitive Capacity) as a temporary measure in order to quasi satisfy his tremendous need for honor until some genuine honor comes his way.

Every man from; the Zero they characterize as “The Dead Electrician” to the Zero who “wears gold chains and whistles at women from across the street while holding his crotch” those men are demonstrating several examples from the plethora of ways that men’s POH can emerge.

Just read their blog and you can tell that Megan & Claudia have been there-done that…. when it comes to encounters with the perverted sense of honor that men can manufacture from their brain…Those two women deserve not only kudos for their insight and candor about a relatively sensitive subject but they also deserve the Purple Heart.

However, their field guide to Zeros and the overall tone of their web-blog site seems to be aimed at the notion that when a woman meets a man with one or more of the traits that make him a zero, the best way for a woman to handle it is to avoid men with zeroish tendencies. And that’s fine if that’s what you want to do, but that also means that since all heterosexual men are prone to POH they ALL qualify to be avoided at one point or another when you are in a relationship with him..  

Now, before I share this next piece of information I want you to know I am not criticizing Megan Gray and Claudia Maittlen-Harris in any way.

Sigmund “Frigging” Freud and all of the other men who are generally revered as the founders of what is called, Behavioral Social-Psychology MISSED what I discovered because they could not get past their own Penis Prisms (and I can tell by having read their works that Freud and several other of the founders were “sitting” right on top of discovering what I uncovered). So we are not going to criticize Megan & Claudia simply because they have not yet heard of my work.

That said, POH in men is bad enough but what does a woman do when she is in love with a guy who shows zerosihness or other POH tendencies and/or if you are already involved with, about to marry, or even already married to him when you finally “see” his zeroishness tendencies?  What then? Do you really want to become another statistic of the 50% failed marriages? [By the way, I firmly believe that the reason the percentage of failed marriages is not much higher than 50% is because many women compromise their standards to stay in a marriage that they would otherwise dump.] But I digress…

The thing you might not yet be aware of is as soon as you can identify and separate his ego induced behavior (POH) from his honorable behavior and to disassociate yourself from his egotism while prompting his honor drive… every single heterosexual male is so prone to blindly following his honor instinct he WILL respond to a woman’s prompting just like Pavlov’s dog. And the man you see in him will at least begin to emerge or re-emerge….

Meanwhile, if you are in love, married, involved, or want to be involved with a man who demonstrates one or more of the zeroishness tendencies described in TZFG you can easily learn how to prompt the honorable behavior you want to see come from a man by reading my book, as well as listening and applying the information from the segment of my audio series titled, Honor vs Egotism in men

He will not be harmed by what I teach you to do in any way and he will not likely even know he is re-emerging the honorable man that you probably saw in him at the outset of your relationship or initial encounter with him.

In other words, follow my lead and I promise you that the so called War of the sexes that include dealing with men’s plethora of ways to pervert their honor will be over for you and the man you choose for a committed relationship.

Thus far what I teach to each gender has a 100% success rate in producing positive results. This is because I did not invent TMW force of nature and it is not my philosophy. It’s natures gift to all humans and I was diligent enough as a social scientist and I am honored to be the one who discovered how TMW functions inside each gender and how to apply it in our everyday lives…. Meanwhile, pay attention to The Zeros Field Guide. It will help you further apply The Mammalian Way™ (TMW) into your everyday lives. Best wishes to you all…..

Gary James